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-Keep smiling,Cheers
HariPriya :)

Different facets of life....extremities..

Life is two opposites..U get to experience all at some point or other...a simple example...sometimes I feel lik writing a blogpost,sometimes I just don't..
Analysing as far as I could..Differences,extremities vary from the simplest to the complex..All these take place in a single person's life..We go through all these phases..Only then life is complete..
-Feelin of happiness and sorrow
-Feelin encouraged and discouraged
-Feelin that u hav lots of people around u for u and sometimes feelin too lonely..
-Feelin that u r right always and when u go wrong after sometime..
-Expecting people to be on ur side and thats when they ignore u or not react to u..
-U talk really mature at times and commit too silly mistakes the next moment..contrasting u see..
-Helpless situations when u think u shud do somethin,but u can't or u dunno how to..
-Times when u do think u did injustice to ppl and at the same time u feel confused thinkin if u were the one who really did the mistake or not..
-U r so happy or u r feelin so gloomy and u need company to share it with....but U wont find someone..
-Situations when u need to definitely do something,but ur mood gets spoilt..
-Times when u want somebody to be always happy and smiling,but u end up as a reason for them to frown..
-When u find urself fighting with everyone for everything,but u dont even get that miniscule feeling of arguing with certain..
-Situations when u struggle a lot to make ppl understand certain things,but they either don get a single point of it or misinterpret what u mean..
-When u want to do something in a certain way as u think,and somebody else wants u to change it..
-People who are likeable and sound sensible this moment,but frustrating in d next.
-The feeling of domination and the feeling of insecurity
-Winning and losing
-Tendency of people to tag winners as head-weighted,but don't realise that their prediction/assumption is false most of the time..
-The intense feeling of enjoying life and unfortunate feeling of ending life by ourselves(by the same person..in the same person's mind)
-Fear of losing and Energy for winning..
-Fear and confidence

(To be continued..)
I just typed out what i could think of at the moment....Will continue as and when i feel lik typing down..

-Take care,
Hari..

Felt like telling you all again !

ACCEPT PEOPLE AS THEY ARE ! Thats how they hav been made..
If u find something about them thats disturbing u,try telling them if u r close enough bcoz they will understand and make u also to understand why they are so..But if u aren't close enough right now,wait for the right time or if u think u ll never get close at all,just tell urself-They are what they are and U are what u are! Nothin wrong I feel..After all they aren't gonna eat u up or neither are they committin a crime..They are just being themselves,doing justice to their self..!
But if u r lucky enough to be their close buddy having the rights to tell them,don't hesitate..Coz u are sure they will take in your words..Only thing is be soft and polite when u r tryin to tell them what u feel and however they react,listen fully first and express ur reactions after they finish..By being this way,arguments can be avoided..Atleast thats what i think..

Jus felt lik reiterating things to myself and others too..So let me escape from this place before somebody screams 'Yoooooooow Enough grannyyyyy!! :D '

-With love,
Hari :)

I really could not think of a proper title !

I could not think of a proper title..And I could not think of a proper introduction too..So let me start right away..!
Assumptions can go wrong..I need to tell you all..In all issues.

I feel like explaining things with the help of this character 'She',thats how I have named her.
She started off everything thinking it is going to be difficult for her to get along with the people whom she met in her new surrounding.And She decided not to mingle well with them so that she could avoid those farewell tears and all the cliched situations later in life.But obviously it isn't possible.When she is in a place with people all around,she needs to socialise.She had to!

She was happy with the beginning as well as the proceedings.She felt that the people around her were as all how she expected to be.And apart from them,she also could not stand how some people acted to her and others too.So she thought She will hate those 'some' people for life too.

Later now things seem like everything is going topsy-turvy for her.With people who were around her beginning to ignore her,She cried inside but holding a smile on the face as she always does,atleast most of the times.She could not reason out why all this was being done to her.She could not ask out either.And suddenly the some people whom she had felt,wont go along with her well,started showing care for her.She has started liking them.She understood this fact-"She needs to accept people as they are!" True..When She expects people to accept her as she is,she needs to do that to others too..She has learnt this fact!She has decided to act accordingly hereafter.All these days She has been immature to understand all these things.Now she is beginning to realise the reality.People do change,its how She reacts to all that.After all She is happy with the way she is leading life.

But how do you expect her to remain mum when the people whom she liked so much don't even bother to show that they care.Perhaps they haven't come out of their immaturity still.She will wait..But all She could analyse was,not all among those people are ignoring her.Some still do care.She keeps them close to heart.She too has flaws in her,she knows that and she accepts the fact.But she is not too arrogant too.She can be submissive,she can adapt herself,provided she is not taken for a ride by others.Thats mean,She feels.She is trying to cope up with even the silliest of things around her.At the end of all,She is longing for care not from someone she doesn't know,but from her very own people around her.But she doesn't want to force it outta them.Because now she accepts the love and care that the "some-people-whom-she-ASSUMED AS-out of frequency with her" are offering to her.This became possible because She is learning to understand reality-"Accept people as they are!"('She' is undergoing all this because she would have done this to others somewhere during the walk of life..Its quite natural that when U do something,it doesn't seem to be wrong..But the same when done by others to you might seem like a murder crime to you!Quite natural,but thats human tendency..Thats how he has been created..!)


Life seems too unpredictable.U might place some people in the soft corner and some in the grudgy corner.But they might swap places due to the silliest of issues.Suddenly people whom,you thought,don't care for you will be so very affectionate and loving to you!(REMEMBER READING THIS SOMEWHERE? -> Assumptions can go wrong..I need to tell you all..) and people you liked will act mean to you.It happens.So make your heart flexible to such a situation.Am not asking you to be vulnerable and allow people to take you for granted.Am not an expert in all this as well.So wherever this issue's maze twists,turns and leads you to,there is only one way out..I guess! Go ahead with life,Take care you don't act indifferent to people 'unnecessarily',Try acting mature even in the simplest of issues,talk straight when you want to,Don't make fun of sensitive issues(most important of all-This is what I call being mature!!!!) and the list goes on and on..

I really wanted to convey a meaning in this post to all of you.But I guess I got diverted somewhere in between with all vague points,am not sure though.Anyhow,I hope I could bring out a bit of what I wanted to.And of course,I don't assume mine to be 'all-perfect'! As always,U r welcome to comment and add life to the learning process of life!! :)

-With no assumptions,but just love,
Hari :)